Part 1 - Prostate Probes
Many of my callers enjoy adding some props and toys to their experience during our calls.In particular, many callers enjoy a bit of prostate or anal play. There's nothing wrong with wanting to insert something into your ass, and many man find it highly pleasurable, but please choose something that is safe to use--not the end of a hairbrush or the handle of a screwdriver! Fingers are great but can only reach so far, and only have so much girth. Not to mention that it's hard to get the smell of ass off of your fingers. Some men fear that using a dildo in their ass may make them gay. A dildo or plug in your ass is also no more likely to make you gay than it would make a lesbian straight. I have selected many items in my affiliate store, based in their quality, durability, as well as the use of body safe materials that can be sterilized.
If you are a beginner to anal play, I highly recommend that you start with a small, silicone toy. For most guys, their eyes are bigger then their ass--so my advice is to go smaller than you think you can handle..All anal toys should have a flared base to keep the toy from being sucked up into your ass! I have selected toys that are made from nonporous materials that you can sterilize, such as silicone, stainless steel, aluminum, hard plastic, or glass. Most of these toys can be cleaned using antibacterial soap or sterilized by boiling or by cleaning with 10% bleach or hydrogen peroxide, but always check the manufacterer's cleaning instructions. Each material has its own unique properties such as smoothness, weight, and ability to retain heat or cold, and these should be considered when selecting a toy. I'll go over these properties briefly:
- Silicone - can be soft and pliable or fairly firm depending on the type of silicone used. Some toys feature two types of silicone to replicate a "realistic" feel, and are known as 'dual density' toys. Silicone can be slightly cold at room temperature but can be warmed up by putting the toy under your arm or by running warm water over it. Though smooth, silicone should be well lubricated as it has some drag to it. There are exceptions, but generally use water based lubricants with silicone toys--silicone lubricants can degrade the silicone in the toy unless the manufacturer recommends otherwise. Silicone is also notorious for collecting lint, so it's advised to keep your toys in a box or plastic bag.
- Stainless steel and aluminum. Metals can be cold at room temperature. Metal toys can be quickly warmed by running the toy under warm water, or even intentionally heated or chilled in the freezer. Stainless is heavier than aluminum and the weight is part of its appeal. The surface is extremely smooth, and is compatible with all lubricants.
- Glass - Glass toys are made from borosilicate glass, popularly known by the trade name Pyrex. It is shatter resistant, and you'll find that these toys are not fragile and are very safe for insertion. Like metal they can be cold at room temperature, but can be warmed under warm water. You should avoid extreme changes in temperature to avoid breakage. Like metal, glass is also very smooth, fairly weighty and is compatible with all types of lubricants.
- Hard Plastic. Often toys are made from ABS plastic. Some hard plastic can be porous, and if so, it may not be sterilized or shared unless you cover it with a condom. Hard plastic is lightweight, smooth, and doesn't tend to be cold at room temperature. Hard plastic can be used with all types of lubricants.
Plugs and prostate stimulators are inserted and worn--they are not thrust in and out like a dildo. If you think you would enjoy clenching around a toy that is left in place, a plug or prostate stimulator is for you. For a beginner, I recommend that you go with a smaller, silicone toy such as the Fun Factory Bootie if you desire something a bit soft, or a hard plastic prostate stimulator such as the Aneros if you want something firmer. Glass and metal plugs such as the Njoy Pure Plug (the medium is fine for most anal n00bs) can be an excellent choice if you enjoy temperature play or don't mind warming the toys prior to insertion. If you're unsure about the size, you can always try out an this economy set of 3 plugs by Trinity Vibes
If you want the sensation of being fucked, you'll want to go with a dildo. Made of silicone, the Tantus Silk comes in three sizes and is completely smooth, can be used with a strapon harness. The Vixen Mistress is slightly larger, but still slim, and a good choice for a beginner. If you're wanting something a little more realistic, a dual density toy like the Vixen VixSkin Spur or the larger Tantus 02 Adam may be good choices. If you'd like your dildo to have balls, then something like the Vixen VixSkin Johnny might be a good fit.
Look through my affiliate store and see if anything might fit nicely up your ass! I appreciate your support through your purchases. Once your new toy arrives, call me on NiteFlirt and I'll help you find creative ways to use it.